Sarah+Madison+Kelsey {just because}

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Sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and ask, “Were you really a sorority girl?”  I really feel like I don’t fit the sorority girl mold, the idea that’s been shaped in our minds as the stereotype.  But then I think back, honing in on moments that happened on late nights in the house kitchen, the dance parties we had just because the music started playing, the hugs I’ve shared with my sisters since college and I realize that being a sorority girl is anything but stereotypical.  It’s whatever you make it.

You make the decisions.  You make the experience.  Those decisions and experiences make you a better you.

Of course, all of this reflection came about on Sunday.  I had the pleasure of meeting three women, three best friends, that probably wouldn’t have met one another if they weren’t sorority sisters.

Fate is funny like that.

I might have 10 years on them, but watching them together – laughing at inside jokes, teasing each other – that’s what I remember, that was the best part of the experience.  The friendships.   The friendships I had then.  The friendships I still have now.  The friendships they’ll have 10 years from now.

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

Madison+Kelsey+Sarah {friends}

This was so much fun.  So so much fun.  I knew it would be but at the same time it felt so good to be leaving them with a smile on my face, to have spent the time we did together, to share the stories we had told.

Madison, Sarah and Kelsey are smart, beautiful women and have so much to look forward to.  Always keep your eyes to the future, ladies – you never know what goodness is yet to come.

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May 27, 2011 - 9:54 am

Shelly B - Brooke, these shots are fantastic!

May 27, 2011 - 10:20 am

amyhasbangs - How adorable!

May 27, 2011 - 11:42 am

J. Smith - Love these so much. They look so happy! And i love the post too (for obvious reasons — would you have EVER met such a random work-song-singing, wanna-be crafter, mish mash of a person like me if not for our dear sorority? And even if we did meet do you THINK we would have known how much we have in common? I don’t think so!) Of course it got me all nostalgic and thinking “It is not entirely a flower, a monogrammed ring, or a golden badge. And it is not entirely an institution, a creed, a legacy, an obligation, or a way of life. If you’re going to insist that it is something at all……” And then I misted up in my office. And realized I’m totally a stereotype. I just cried about a poem I haven’t heard in its entirety in 5 years. ;)

May 27, 2011 - 1:51 pm

Brooke - Pref. The only thing I really like about recruitment. Love that poem we used to share. Each person taking their part, taking the hand next to them… it’s only supposed to be heard in entirety when you have another hand to hold. (Oh god. Total sorority girl moment. Must. Find. Tissue.)

May 27, 2011 - 2:42 pm

Melanie - Boo, because of you I teared up at work. Then J gave me goosebumps. Thanks girls! But it is so true, I love our friendship that began on bid day years ago a friendship that even the ole state of Michigan can’t change!! Lus you (and the pics)

May 27, 2011 - 2:53 pm

Brooke - I can’t believe you brought Michigan into this conversation. Boo Melanie, boo.

May 27, 2011 - 9:47 pm

Melanie - You are not supposed to boo me friend! You are supposed to tell me how much you lus me too ;) Can’t wait to squeeze you soon!!

May 28, 2011 - 9:33 am

Whitney - Oh, geez, the memories and the comments are making me mist up as well. Great pics Brooke and thanks for the blog that brought back great memories of great times with great girls!

May 28, 2011 - 8:22 pm

Joan Nova - I love your work. Each time I think ‘it couldn’t get better’ and then it does! You totally rock the lens!

June 14, 2011 - 6:44 pm

Julie - I can’t believe I missed this post earlier, but wow! These are great and you have me tearing up!

June 14, 2011 - 10:04 pm

Brooke - I took these only a week or two after your wedding so I had sister-stuff on the brain already. Seeing them together made me wish for your wedding to come back. I HAD SO MUCH FUN THAT NIGHT!! Yay for Mr. and Mrs. Napper!

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